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April 11, 2013

Discussing hats and medical hair loss with Kathleen


On numerous occasions over the past year, I've had the great pleasure of being interviewed and/or asked to share some of my thoughts on certain subjects relating to hats on the terrific blog That's a pretty hat.

Earlier this week, the immensely lovely lady behind this site asked me to do just that another topic pertaining to hats, this time it was one which is certainly of a more personal nature than anything else I'd shared there before, and which I was truly honoured to be asked to speak about: Hats and medical hair loss.

In her post, Kathleen looks at hair loss due to both cancer and other medical related reasons, the latter of which my own story with hair loss falls into. Below are my thoughts, as they appeared in this informative post, which I urge you to visit as well, because you'll find more information (including a video) on this subject there as well.

As I talked about in this post back in January, my own story of hair loss began when I was 14 (14.5 to be exact) and never let up. At first it wasn't too bad, but as the years rolled on and nothing seemed to come forward as the cause or a solution to the problem (I tried mainstream and natural medicines/treatments, consulted scads of doctors, had tons of tests done, etc), my hair continued to fall out. My hair loss is somewhat equally disturbed, but there have always been bigger areas with more hair loss in the front (especially above the temples), sides and crown and these were the ones that I tried to hide (or at least better disguise) with my beloved vintage hats.

My hair loss, while aesthetically irksome, was painless (as in my scalp didn't hurt and I wasn't in any physical discomfort due to my hair falling out) and so this meant that I could wear just about any kind of hat I wanted to. If a person was experiencing scalp pain due to, or in conjunction with, their hair loss, certain types of hats (stiffer materials and tighter styles, for example) might not be ideal.

Depending on the amount of hair loss a woman is experiencing - and how much she wishes to mask the problem - she may find that she can also wear a wide range of hats. If her hair loss is minimal to moderate and/or localized to certain areas of her scalp, most styles should work for her and help conceal the fact that her hair is thinning or balding in one or more areas. If wide spread hair loss is present to a high degree, yet a woman still wishes to keep her real hair (instead of switching to a wig), than sporting larger hats (such as fedoras, cloches, wide brimmed straw and felt hats, large 1960s style pill boxes - even cowboy hats) may be more ideal for her.

One technique I found that helped give the illusion that I had more hair than I actually did was to wear my hair in a simple bun or French roll in the back (with or without a faux bang in the front) and a medium sized hat in the middle of my head. This made it look like my hair was merely tucked into the bun/roll in the back, instead of that it was quite thin all over (and worse in some spots, all of which I usually tried to hide with the hat. Here's an example (pictured below) from last September of when I sported this particular type of hat and hair combo.




I never really felt ashamed of my hair loss - I wasn't doing anything to intentionally cause it and I'd tried diligently to remedy or at least halt the problem, so I wasn't necessarily trying to use hats as a way to hide the issue all the time, but it was sincerely nice to always know that they were their for those days when I wanted to disguise the problem and/or help make it seem like I had more hair than I really did at the time.

I think that when a woman - or really anyone, for that matter - is experiencing hair loss, be it gradual or quite sudden, it feels natural to want to have something on your head (at least some of the time) to help compensate for the amount of hair that you see dwindling away each day when you look in the mirror, and hats can certainly go a very long ways in this regard.

If a person opts (or needs to) become a wig wearer, I can't urge them enough to continue to keep sporting hats. Since I started wearing a wig full time late in 2012, I've sported hats many, many times with my wig. I find that doing so really helps to add an extra element of realness to my wig, making it look more like my own natural hair (I swear, this is one of those secrets to making a wig look lifelike that has escaped the general radar but which can make a world of difference).

You may find that the wig (or wigs) you select change the overall size of your head a little (mine went up about half a hat size, but as my head is fairly small to begin with, thankfully all of my vintage hats still fit), so be mindful of this when you start buying hats after becoming a wig wearer (measure your head with your wig on and use that measurement as your hat size from here on out - or at least for as long as you wear a particular wig).

If you love hats and are experiencing hair loss, I truly hope you'll continue to keep wearing as many of your favourite toppers as possible. They can really help take your mind off of feeling conscious amount your thinning hair, as (depending on their size) they can cover some or even all (think a long 1920s style cloche) of your head and thus, only you, really know just how much, or how little, hair you actually have.


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Thankfully, hair loss is not something every woman will face in lifetime, but a decent number - whether on a short or long term basis - will at some point (be it due to alopecia, pregnancy, thyroid problems, stress, cancer treatment, or any one of many other possible causes), and I truly hope that those who do will continue to wear hats, if it’s something that they've long enjoyed (or have a newfound desire to try out).

Since becoming a fulltime wig wearer myself last winter, I've taken to wearing a hat (or top of wig) quite a lot of the time when I go (honestly, I'd say with about the same frequency as in my pre-wig days). I adore my vintage hats and could never imagine not including them in my wardrobe due to my hair loss - especially when they'd been such great allies to me over the years as I attempted to conceal the extent to which my locks were thinning.

Regardless of if the hair under them sprouted from my own head or comes in the form of a wig, I'll always top my tresses with a vintage chapeau! (Four examples of which, each from vintage outfit posts over the past few months, you can see below.)


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I think it's fantastic that Kathleen (who is not facing medical hair loss herself) decided to talk about this important topic on her blog, and I really want to say thank you again for giving me the opportunity to chat about some of my own firsthand experience with this subject on your site.

There's nothing to be ashamed about regarding female hair loss, and I really hope that Kathleen's post (and in turn, mine here) will encourage more people to discuss their thoughts on the topic, whether they pertain to hats or not.

October 10, 2012

Chatting about vintage hats with Kathleen

Last month, as you may recall, I posted about how I had the honour of being included in fellow hat lover, Kathleen Lisson's first roundup of hat wearing wearing bloggers on her wonderful blog called That's a Pretty Hat.

In the time between then and now, Kathleen and I have had a chance to delve further into the topic of collecting, wearing and adoring hats, and this week she posted my replies to her many terrific questions on the subject in a series of two posts on her blog.

While I've certainly delved into the topic of vintage hats, as well as my collection, and love, of wearing yesteryear toppers here before numerous times over the years, this series of interview questions is by far the most detailed look at the subject I've put down on virtual paper before, so I wanted to share my answers to all of the questions that appear in both of Kathleen's lovely interviews with all of you here today.

Without further ado, may I present a great many of my thoughts and feelings on, and about, collecting and wearing vintage hats.


Can you share a story about the first time you wore a hat? Mine was an Easter hat when I was five or six years old. How did wearing a hat make you feel back then?

The first distinct memory that I have of wearing a hat was when I was just three years old. Shortly before my forth birthday, my mom's only sister, Lori, got married and I had the honour of being the couples' flower girl.

My outfit consisted of a cute little pink and white dress and matching straw hat. I loved that hat (and dress) and kept in on a shelf in my childhood bedroom while I was growing up. When I wore that hat I remember feeling very stylish and mature - like the adult ladies in my family and my mother's friends when they'd dress up for formal or important events (this being the 80s, plenty of women still wore hats to parties, on dates, etc).



{Here I am at age three pictured with my Aunt Lori, on her wedding day, in the first - completely cute - hat I can distinctly remember wearing. It's entirely possible my love of hats started on this very day!}


Though it's showing its age a little, to this day - some twenty-five years later - I still have my first "grownup" hat and love it just as much as I did when I was a youngster (even though it's been far too small for me to wear since I was about nine or ten years old).


What was your first vintage hat? I recently bought a Schiaparelli faux fur hat and I like daydreaming about the classy ladies that wore it before me.

How marvelously exciting that you acquired a Schiaparelli. Her work was so imaginative, cutting edge and whimsical! I don't have any hats in my collection from world famous designers, but always keeping my eye peeled for them at yard sales and thrift stores - so you never know!

My first vintage was a relatively basic black felt bonnet (sans brim) style number that I bought because I really liked it and could see it working well with a huge number of different outfits. Indeed it did - and still does to this day.


How does wearing a vintage hat make you feel?

Proper. I know that might seem like an odd adjective to go with, but when I wear a vintage hat I feel like I'm dressing the way that people (both men and women) are supposed to in many situations. The eschewing of hats by both sexes is such a new development in the history of the western world, and clearly one that I've never been on board with. When I wear a vintage hat (or any beautiful, classically styled topper, for that matter) I feel like I'm helping to really pull my whole outfit together and like I'm giving a nod of heartfelt respect to the styles and people that I so admire from the past.


Do you think it is OK to mix decades when it comes to matching hats and clothes?

I've always, steadfastly, been a big proponent of the belief that fashion is what each individual makes of it. While you may look at someone and think to yourself, "I'd never wear in a million years wear that outfit!", it might make the person wearing it incredibly happy, confident, and stylish to their mind and that's what matters. There's no right and wrong when it comes to fashion as whole, just want works for each of us, so to that end, I'm totally fine if people want to mix clothes and hats from various decades.

I wear 1940s and 50s looks, and some of the clothes, hats and accessories in my wardrobe can work seamlessly for either decade, so in that respect I do sometimes even mix decades a bit myself.


What are some qualities you look at when choosing a good vintage store or online shop?

Due to the fact that I live in a relatively small town that has only one vintage store (which tends to lean heavily towards the 60s and 70s, as opposed to the 40s and 50s) that's only open part of the year, I tend to buy the vast majority of my vintage clothes and hats at online from etsy first and foremost, followed by eBay.

When looking at vintage sellers and their hat listings on etsy (and eBay), you have to take people at their word to a certain degree. Clear, detailed photos are often a great way to get a sense of a hat's quality and if you feel it really is from the period that the seller is claiming (I find that hats usually do hail from the decade the seller says, but you want to be careful, as I certainly have seen sellers - either unknowingly or not - list hats from the 80s and 90s as being from the 20s - 50s).

If I'm buying from a seller for the first time, I like to check out their feedback, see how much information they provide in their listing, and ask any and all questions I might have before buying. I live in Canada and usually have to pay much more than those in the US would to have a hat sent up here from an American seller, so it's very important to me that I feel confident with the hat I'm buying before I go through with a sale.

I've not yet had the great pleasure of visiting a store (I wonder if Canada has any still?) that just specifically sold vintage hats, but when shopping at vintage clothing stores in various parts of the country, I apply the same principles, always asking to try on the hat before I buy, too, and inspecting it with a proverbial fine tooth comb for any significant flaws, stains, etc that might be deal breakers.

If you like wearing fashions from a certain decade (or decades), then, if possible, you may want to try and find vintage clothing sellers who specialize in carrying items from those years, as they're often more apt to have a wide selection, and broader knowledge on, the types of hats you're hoping to find.


Where do you find good vintage hats? Do you have any secret places to shop or recommended sellers on the Internet?

A great vintage hat can spring up anywhere, and I constantly keep my eyes peeled for them wherever I may be. I've found a couple of wonderful 1950s hats at the Salvation Army thrift store here in town, as well as some (very occasionally) at local yard sales. I love these sources as they often are your best bet nowadays for amazing deals on quality vintage hats.

I pretty much just shop for hats online on etsy and eBay and generally buy from a wide array of sellers on those sites. Everyone I've bought hats from so far as been a dream to do business with, so I'd definitely recommend those sites to anyone with an interest in vintage toppers.

One site I've heard positive things about (and certainly where I've spent a bit of time daydreaming before myself) and which includes a really nice array of vintage hats is Dorothea's Closet Vintage. This seller stocks clothing and accessories from the 1800s right up to the 1980s, so there's a good chance most vintage hat fans can find a topper or two there that sets their heart aflutter.


What are your tips on evaluating a vintage hat? What are some factors that make you decide not to purchase a hat?

When buying a vintage hat, I evaluate it much as I would other types of vintage clothing. I first make sure it's my size (or close enough so that it will fit - always veering, if need be, on the side of larger instead of smaller), then I study all available photos carefully, looking for any conditional issues that the seller might not have listed or may have accidentally overlooked. If need be, I don't hesitate to politely ask the seller for additional photos before buying.

Many vintage hats have held up remarkably well considering their age, and it's not hard to find one in excellent shape still. I'm fine with hats that have a little wear and tear, inconspicuous stains (to the lining, for example, or hidden under netting), ultra small holes (from moths, hat pins, etc), or other minor issues. I'm a big fan of hats with a bit of netting (veiling) on them, and it's not uncommon (given the the immensely delicate nature of netting) to find (be it online or in person) vintage hats that have damaged netting. In some cases the rips/runs are hidden in the overall netting pattern, but sometimes you need to either wear the netting up on the hat (which often looks so lovely, I think) or to remove it and, if so desired, replace it with a new piece of netting.

I've been buying and looking at vintage hats for many years now, so I'd say that the largest factor when it comes to buying a hat or not is often price. Because I follow the vintage market very carefully and have a general sense of what most types of 1930s, 40s, 50s and 60s hats generally sell for (especially online), if I saw a hat I loved but thought it was massively overpriced, I'd be very hesitant to buy it. I'd first do an extensive online search for similar (or identical) hats and if I found one or more selling for less (assuming the seller was reputable), I'd opt for that one instead.

In terms of conditional issues, I'm somewhat forgiving and find that a lot of small issues (say a missing flower on a flower covered cap or a tiny pinhole) are almost (if not completely) impossible to see once you're wearing the hat. If a hat was really damaged or had multiple conditional issues, I'd likely pass on it, unless I was buying it for a steal and planned on simply using it as a display piece and/or only for photo shoots.


Do you have any resources for fixing or mending vintage hats?

To date - knock wood! - I've not had to do any serious mending to vintage hats I've purchased, but in general I would suggest that a person try to find a local milliner (which, I know, is not something every town has any more), bridal wear expert, costume designer (theater companies are a great place to turn for such folks), top-notch seamstress, conservation expert (check local museums and historical societies), or fellow vintage hat wearer with experience and knowledge on the subject, if you're looking to have a seriously damaged piece repaired.

When it comes to cleaning vintage hats, a couple of techniques I've had good success with are to use a hair dryer (on a cool/cold low setting) to whisk away the dust and debris that may have built up over the years (a fabric lint roller can work great in this regard, too, especially on sturdy felt and wool hats), spot washing (always do a trial spot washing check on the inside of the hat if you're concerned that water might damage the material of the outer hat) with water, and if needed, a small bit of baby shampoo (or shampoo for ultra sensitive skin). A gentle sponge, tooth brush, or plush wash cloth are all handy when using water (and soap, if applicable) on vintage hats. You'll want to ensure you only get your hat a tiny bit damp at a time and that you thoroughly dry it in a well ventilated area before wearing or storing it.

If you've picked up a vintage hat and you feel like it's gotten a tad warped out of shape over the years, you can sometimes use a little bit of (gentle!) steam to help shape it again (use your best judgement when it comes to the materials the hat is made of and if they'll stand up to the heat and moisture of steam), or alternatively buy an inexpensive wig stand or styrofoam prop head (sometimes found at craft stores) and gently shape the hat around that, letting it sit there for at least a few days to help mold itself to the desired head shape.


What are your feelings about shopping at thrift versus vintage stores versus online?

I love all of these sources and encourage those with an interest in vintage hats to avail of all three. Generally speaking, vintage stores (especially these days, where vintage sellers know that there is a lot of demand for what they're supplying) charge higher prices then thrift stores, but I've heard tales south of the 49th about thrift stores that are now selling vintage goods at nearly the same rates as actual vintage stores, so that old hard and fast may be gradually going out the window.

Shopping online entails the convenience of being able to shop whenever, wherever you'd like, and to have a huge array of hats just wanting for you to browse thorough. Vintage hats vary widely - and wildly! - in terms of cost, and I've really noticed a sharp increase (over all) in hat prices over the past couple of years, but good deals can certainly still be had, especially if you're shopping for less ornate and/or rare styles. So between the lure of a good bargain and ample selection, shopping for vintage hats online hold a lot of appeal.

The main drawback is that, in almost all cases (excluding a local seller who might allow you to see their merchandise before buying), you can't try the hat on before you buy it. If you're new to wearing/buying vintage hats or are buying a style you haven't worn before, this can certainly be a negative side to online shopping. Generally speaking though, if the hat is listed as being your size (make sure you measure your hat, with your hair in as natural a style as possible, before embarking on buying vintage hats), is in good shape, and you feel like it will look good on you, it probably will, so I see no reason to shun online hat shopping, even when it comes to the most novice of collectors.


Do you have any tips or links to vintage hat hairstyle tips or tutorials?

In days gone by women often often opted for hairstyles (including their perm settings) that would easily accommodate for various hairstyles, but nowadays that's a thought that few (especially outside of the vintage world) have ever paused to think about.

Each era had its own distinct hair and hat styles, but (very) generally speaking, if you're going to be wearing a hat that covers all (or almost all) of the top (and possibly part of the sides) of your heads, you'll want to stick with styles that aren't overly voluminous (e.g., Betty Grable's iconic mass of curls on the top of her head) and which will still look good once you've removed your chapeau (if you're planning to that day, I mean).

Soft waves, curls on the lower portion of the hair, some types of bangs (or faux bags), rolls (worn on the forehead or at the nap of the neck), chignons, low set buns (at the back of the neck), braids, and even pigtails can all be great choices (just depending on your hair's length, type, and cur factor) for hat wearers.

When wearing a vintage hat that's going to cover most (or all) of the top of my head, I usually do a 40s or early 50s inspired (wet) pin or rag curl set the night before, brush it in the morning so that the volume is towards the ends and either pin the sides back or let them fall around my face.

Sometimes though, if I'm using second day hair or if sometime comes up and I'm not able to plan my hair in advance, I'll do a nice little chignon or low set roll at the back of my neck, often in conjunction with a faux bang roll in the front instead. Just as one picks their hats with their event or destination in mind, so too do you want to opt for a hairstyle that works for what you have ahead of you. If in doubt, a classic bun or chignon (if your hair is long enough to create one) without pieces sticking out, is an elegant option for most any occasion.


How do you store your vintage hats, do you take any special precautions?

Earlier this year we moved into a wonderful little condo with two floors and a basement, so for the first time I have enough wall space to be able display many of my hats on small, round ended hooks on one wall in an upstairs bedroom (which we're using as a library). I feel very fortunate to have this space, as it's something I've dreamed about for ages. Actually, I need to get some more hooks soon, as not all of my hats have been hung yet (but there's space for them, if we work around the upper perimeter of the room).

Prior to this, and for those that are not yet on the wall, I was storing my hats in some sturdy cardboard boxes that we got when we bought all new matching clothes hangers a while back. The boxes are designed somewhat like pizza boxes, only a larger (especially in terms of height) and were a great way to carefully store a few hats together in the (relatively) compact same space (these boxes could then be put on a closet shelf and taken down as needed).

If I'm planning on storing a hat (or hats) for a long time between uses or if I'm moving, I'll be sure to pack it securely in archival (acid free) tissue paper and to stuff the hat with tissue, if needed, to help it maintain its shape.

Vintage hat boxes are a great option, too, but they can be hard to find in some areas (depending on where you live) and often command as much - or more! - than vintage hats themselves, so this might not be the most cost effective option for everyone.

Instead you may wish to use to shelves (decorative, bookshelves, unused pantry, etc), hooks, hangers with clips (only for some types of sturdy hats though), cubbyhole storage units (such as Ikea's Expedit unit), wig stands, hat racks and stands, decorative mantles (not those that still oversee fires), dresser or vanity top, plastic storage containers (under the bed style ones can be great if you're short on space), decorative boxes, suitcases (extra style points if they're vintage!), or spare closet (with built in shelves or shelving you add yourself) to store your collection.

No matter where you put your hats, try to keep them out of direct sunlight, away from bugs and critters (be it family pets or uninvited vermin), extreme temperatures, excess moisture, harsh fumes, and curious children who may have a hankering to play dress up with your prized vintage hat collection.

If well cared for and properly stored, many vintage hats should continue to hold up well for decades more to come, even if you wear them sometimes (speaking of which, you may want to avoid using strong hair care products, soaps, and perfumes on your hair and skin when wearing a vintage hat, least these substances, or the residue from them, damage materials such as delicate silk, velvet or satin).


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If you're not already following Kathleen's blog, I highly suggest checking it out, as it's a true must for those with an interest in modern and vintage hats alike. As well, do be sure to swing by both halves of the interview (Vintage Hat Wearer Jessica Cangiano and How to Buy a Vintage Hat Online) over at That's a Pretty Hat, as Kathleen has done a great job of partnering photos of me in various vintage hats with these detailed questions.

Thank you very, very much for your keen interest in my passion for old school chapeaus, dear Kathleen, it's been a joy and a real honour chatting about this topic with you so much lately, and I really look forward to future discussions on this subject.

I know that many of of you are also vintage fan hats, whether you sport them yourself, too, of simply admire their timeless beauty, and would love to hear your thoughts on this fascinating, stylish topic as well anytime, my dears.

September 19, 2012

Honoured to be featured on That's a Pretty Hat

Though, like many of you, I (proverbially) eat, sleep, and breath vintage fashion day in and day out, that doesn't mean I'm not inspired by other peoples' styles, too, even if they veer more on the modern side of things. This rings especially true if a fellow fashion blogger and I happen to share a passion for a particular brand, garment or accessory.

Earlier this year I discovered a wonderful blog that's helmed by a very stylish lady named Kathleen Lisson (pictured below in a sublimely lovely Ellen Christine hat and Reiss dress). What makes her site - called That's a Pretty Hat - especially noteworthy is the fact that Kathleen in a hat loving woman after my own heart. From casual to royal wedding worthy, this well dressed blogger's posts are jam packed with one inspiring, beautiful hat after hat another, each of which is paired with Kathleen's refinded, elegant modern style (which strikes me very much as being 21st Jackie O or Grace Kelly).

Kathleen from That's a Pretty Hat blog weaaring a beautiful Ellen Christine hat


We've been commenting on one another's blogs for a while now, and it was with much excitement that I recently received an email from Kathleen asking if I'd like to be included in part of a post she was planning about hat fellow loving bloggers. As you can imagine, I jumped at the chance and enthusiastically wrote back at the speed of light.

Kathleen asked me to share some of my thoughts on the wearing of hats as an accompaniment to the two photos of me (which long time readers may recall from this shoot last March) included in her post, which you can read here.

I adored getting a chance to share some virtual page space with a handful of fellow hat lovers, whose styles, though much more modern than mine, are certainly inspiring and joy to find myself amongst. If you haven't had an opportunity to discover Kathleen's blog yet, it's a definite must for hat fans of all sorts, whether you reach for the mid-century designs like I do, or straight-off-the-F/W 2012 runway styles. (and everything in between!)

Many sweet thanks for including me as part of your first post on fellow chapeau adoring gals, Kathleen. I can't wait to see, and be inspired by, future editions of this series!